First of all, a word of advice. Sajhaites will criticize the path you have taken to asylum. I hope you understand why; well you are cheating the system and asking for help from those who either don't have a GC or have a GC through a longer/harder but correct route.
So expect some bashings here. If you hadn't applied for asylum, I probably would have asked you to think twice but now there's no point.

Having said that, I hope you get all your wishes. It'd be tough to go home direct. I think most of the people on your boat go via India. So just wait for the GC go home and get married. Kurai sakiyo.
Now there's a chance that you won't get it, prepare yourself for this. Understand that people who took the right path are getting rejected and going back home; so you don't deserve any better. Have some plans on what you would do if you get rejected. Don't stress, plan.